No 721 Ethan Frome by Edith Wharton

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The first reference I ever heard relating to Ethan Frome came from one of my all time favourite movies, Grosse Pointe Blank when Martin Blank, killer for hire, runs into his old high-school English teacher and asks;

Are you still, uh, you know, inflicting all that horrible Ethan Frome damage? Is that off the curriculum?

I didn’t really get the joke as Wharton is not on the curriculum here, but I could appreciate that it may be the US equivalent to that other A Level misery fest by Thomas Hardy, Jude The Obscure.


ethanI’ve never read any Wharton before, the closest I’ve got is watching The Age Of Innocence, and so I was under the impression that her novels were insider critiques of the upper classes. When I decided to take partin the Wharton Review hosted by the brilliant Brona’s Books, I picked Ethan Frome rather randomly and I’m glad I did as it features a landscape and characters that couldn’t be further from that world. I’m also glad I wasn’t forced to read this in school at the age of 14. Isn’t it funny how age and experience change what you get, and what you want, out of literature?
A little browse around the internet would suggest that Ethan Frome is the most depressing book ever written. And it is depressing, I can understand why people either love it or hate it. Wharton uses the framing device of an unnamed narrator, who, through flashback and hearsay tells the story of Ethan Frome in a manner that explicitly juxtaposes the past and present. The narrator hires a damaged husk of a man–Ethan Frome–as his driver during his stay in the town of the aptly named Starkfield.

He seemed a part of the mute melancholy landscape, an incarnation of it’s frozen woe, with all that was warm and sentient in him fast bound below the surface; but there was nothing unfriendly in his silence. I simply felt that he lived in a depth of moral isolation too remote for casual access, and I had the sense that his loneliness was not merely the result of his personal plight, tragic as I guessed that to be, but had in it, as Harmon Gow had hinted, the profound accumulated cold of many Starkfield winters

A chance visit to Frome’s home makes the stranger speculates on Frome’s downfall, after which point the novel takes us back to the events that culminate in Frome’s disfigurement and current plight.
Young Ethan Frome works his unproductive farm and struggles to eke out a bearable existence with his difficult, hypochondriac wife, Zeena whom he married out of a sense of duty. To add to his troubles, he has fallen for Zeena’s cousin Mattie, their live-in ‘hired girl’, seeing in her all the potential and possibilities that he has lost.
What follows is an abject telling of a love triangle, which may be reciprocal but is not acted upon.

But hitherto the emotion had remained in him as a silent ache, veiling with sadness the beauty that evoked it. He did not even know whether anyone else in the world felt as he did, or whether he was the sole victim of this mournful privilege

This is a scenario that is all about stagnation, repression, and resentment, with the potential affair being representative of Ethan’s wish for freedom, for a different life. Add in the puritanical nature of both the place where the Frome’s live and their way of life and you have a love that doesn’t so much allow Ethan to soar, as to cripple him under the weight of his guilt and self-loathing. It is not what is done that creates the pain in this brutal little novella, but what is wished for. Hope does not bring relief, but instead brings Ethan and Mattie an awareness of the cage life has placed them in, through both chance and choice. Fate is certainly cruel to Ethan, but his own actions are as much to blame for his plight.

It’s a simple story – that of lovers who cannot be together so decide never to be apart – but it is given a timeless dignity and passion by Wharton’s elegant and measured prose, the rhythm and pacing of which perfectly matches the themes and characters of the story. For me the love affair wasn’t the central tragedy, rather it was the depiction of Ethan as a man whose life has gone wrong at every turn and who sees no possibility of turning it in the other direction. I was caught up in the poetry and the misery, knowing that when the crash came, it would be devastating. Ethan Frome is proof that sometimes the greatest horrors aren’t expressed in the details. It deliberately forces the reader to imagine the twenty years of frustration, entrapment and obligation that occur between the first and final chapters, and to visualise the emotional pain that has been endured by these three tragic characters. Can there be any more painful description of a life as when Mrs Hale says;

…the way they are now, I don’t see’s there’s much difference between the Fromes up at the farm and the Fromes down in the graveyard

Because they are tragic, all three of them. The book is obviously being imagined from Ethan’s point of view, but the women fare no better, worse maybe. Mattie is reduced to being cared for by the woman she wished to usurp, while Zeena must live daily with the realities of her husband’s infidelity and Ethan’s disfigurement seems almost like a moral retribution for his attempt to escape his life.

Wharton includes enough ambiguity to make the reader empathise with all of them, even Zeena, who may be seen as the easy villain of the piece, but whose life and health has been blighted by the fact that her husband married her out of obligation. Of them all, I found Mattie the least interesting character and in some ways that doesn’t matter. She is the vessel for Ethan’s hopes, and at the end is shut up in that stifling farm house, a symbol of what was never to be.
It’s a haunting story, slight but packing a punch, sad and despairing yet an evocative questioning of how the choices we make and the situations thrust upon us can shape our lives, for better, or in this case, for worse…..

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  1. I mentioned this on someone else’s blog recently. I need to re-read some Wharton. After being forced to over analyze in high school I was seriously put off, but I picked up a couple of her novels after a great panel at the Boston Book Festival two years ago.


  2. I am sad because I never read Wharton. I have to make a point and pick up a book by him next time. However I do know about the pain of analyzing Thomas Hardy. I had to read Far From the Madding Crowd in high school. It was a torture at the time, but since then I went back to it and reread it.


      • I agree – Age of Innocence! Then treat yourself to the simply luscious movie with Daniel day Lewis and Michelle Pfieffer.


      • I’ve read a lot of Wharton, starting in 1983 with Ethan Frome which absolutely won be over to her writing. She’s not a cheery writer but her writing is wonderful. I love her understanding of how people can become trapped, often by their inability to shake off the shackles of societal expectations. I’ve read 8 I think of her novels/novellas, and my favourite has to be The house of mirth. I also adore the name Undine Spraggs, heroine of The custom of the country. So far it’s about my favourite character name ever!


  3. Great review, Cathy. I read Ethan Frome some time ago now, and reading your review makes me want to pick it up again…perhaps I’ll wait for a chilly evening in winter! It’s such a tragic and skillfully written novella.


  4. I love Edith Wharton and honestly don’t know why here in UK anyway she is regarded as a ‘lesser’ novelist than Henry James. She’s infinitely more readable ….and insightful. As for Hardy , at the insistence of a friend , I recently reread Jude and Mayor of Casterbridge and loved both ….obvs I had hated Hardy in school! Done Because We Are Too Menny still breaks my heart when I think of it .


    • Oh god, that line still gives me the shivers and I haven’t read Jude in over 20 years. I have kids now so I think that would break my heart. I totally agree, Wharton seems undervalued here. I read James’ Turn of the Screw recently and really didn’t like it. This, however, was stunning.


  5. I had to read this in high school, and I loved it. I never realized how many people hated it until I got a bit older, so I hid my love away! I still have the book…maybe time for a re-read? I’m happy you enjoyed it. Hopefully you’ll get the chance to pick up The House of Mirth one day–that’s my favorite Wharton.


  6. You read it! This sounds fantastic. Like you, I’ve never read any Edith Wharton but judging by your comments, I really need to! Excellent summary of the book 🙂


    • Thanks Charl. It’s only about 150 pages long, so worth starting your Wharton exploration with. It’s not cheerful though! I do want to read more of her work now, so it did the trick.


  7. I always find it amusing that the books that are inflicted on us at the tender ages of 14 or 15 are often the worst books to choose. So why do English teachers keep on assigning them? One reason only: Because they are short. Never mind the fact that adolescents are simply ill-equipped to deal with the complexities of even short masterpieces such as Ethan Frome or The Scarlet Letter or Billy Budd or Silas Marner. Stop the madness. Just because a book is short doesn’t mean it’s appropriate or accessible to your average teenager.

    But, I must admit, Ethan Frome is a perfect little gem of a book. Even if I didn’t quite understand that when I was a freshman in high school.


    • Exactly Erich. I was reading it thinking ‘what do teenagers know about thwarted ambition and failed dreams’? Although I totally fell in love with Beckett when I was 17, so maybe there’s hope!


  8. I haven’t read any Wharton yet, but coincidentally, I recently bought this very book at a second-hand book store with reading some Wharton in mind. It seemed like a good one to start with, as it is not very long. It’s good to see you liked it so much!


  9. I read this years ago, on a train journey as I recall. I did enjoy it, despite its sadness. I’m an Edith Wharton fan, so I’m glad you’ve got a couple more in your TBR Pile! If you ever come across it, her volume of memoirs, ‘A Backward Glance’ (prob out of print now) is worth reading.


  10. We not only share a common taste in books, but movies too! Grosse Point Blank is one of my favourites and John Cusack is my honey 🙂
    I never understood his Ethan Frome reference as I had already read EF by then and thoroughly enjoyed the misery & the despair the Edith described so poignantly! The age (& your life expereinces) at which you read these books is so often crucial.

    Great review – thanks for joining in the Wharton Review.


  11. This one wasn’t my favorite for some reason, although I don’t remember it too well. She is a wonderful writer, though! I liked The House of Mirth best, but I think you’ll like Age of Innocence, too. 🙂


  12. I saw Ethan Frome on the TV when I was young and much as I enjoy Edith Wharton, I was never drawn to try this one – so bleak.

    Thanks for the review though – very thoughtful and sensitive to Edith Wharton’s motivations, interests and explorations in writing this book.



  13. Nice piece. I completely agree. I wrote this one up at mine also and really enjoyed it and for similar reasons.

    I didn’t like it as much though as Age of Innocence, which I note is also part of the 746, so have fun with that one!


  14. I enjoyed reading your review here! You said: “Wharton includes enough ambiguity to make the reader empathise with all of them” Yes! I absolutely agree! You can’t help but have moments where you empathize with each of the characters. And to me, that is one of the elements that shines in Wharton’s crafting of this novella.

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